Sunday, March 01, 2026

Sunday selections

River is my main connection to Sunday selections - as usual very ordinary pics with a waffle of words on offer here.

Picture of a piece of timber at my parents place with many extended family brands - Dad is third generation Australian and basically over 90% of his heritage is agriculture and livestock.

I did a search but apparently I have only done one real branding post (way back in May 2007) - and earlier in the week Ms Moon confounded me by having to Google what Marks and Brands were.

Isn't it weird, what one person grows up knowing innately and other never encounter?

We were in the saddle before we could ride bikes, learned how to drive before we hit high school and got paid in child labour by getting a calf branded for us each season.

I always chose the prettiest one for mine. We were only ever allowed to choose steers and only from commercial paddocks but that was preferred anyway as they were often the prettiest in my eyes - brindle or spotted with a twinkle of non-conformity in their eyes.

Image of a magnificent silver-leafed Ironbark (I think) on a Queensland country road

I have just come back from a trip out to visit Mum and Dad - 'Salina was with me. We always drive past this tree and made the decision to stop on our way home today. This isn't even her best angle but it was raining and the side of the road not conducive to more than a cursory click. That and the rather ordinary photographer on this side of the phone.

Image of proteas from a friend's garden delivered for Mum while I was there 

Yes- even though I am not the level of nearly blind that I was using as an excuse prior to cataract surgery, my skills as a photographer didn't get any better!


Saturday, February 28, 2026

Poetry society

It was wear a jersey to work today (to support your favourite team #) but I forgot. When reminded I explained that I would be wearing what I had on to poetry tonight which is sort of a sport, isn't it?

The first poet's night of the year was held this evening.

'Salina and I attended.

The regular hostess is taking a few months off because baby (π) so instead we had the awesome pairing of compere J---y and softly spoken Z.

First was the lady from the potter's guild with an invitation to offer artistic inspiration

Then G with an apologetic recitation of witty brilliance aired before. (§)

Y had found a very gentle and calming recitation she sourced from a play.

K spoke of death and the beauty surrounding it.

(¥)

I can't remember if next but a first time reader was in the next few and oh, a funny and punchy poem regarding NDIS.

(∆)

Oh that's right, the amazing and brilliant T was next with her Mistake poem, and it was a ripsnorter. We all went on her journey and recognised the landmarks.

R in his beaten up hat was in there too with a charming poem about a housemaid and a jackeroo, a fishing yarn and a bikini.

I had edited a version of Morass Mess and a very old poem of mine (about 1993) Lament for Lost Chance at the Last One Night Stand.

I must do that one for you one day.

I can't remember the order of the ones after - I think j did one about yoga - a very funny rhyme - and a beautiful one in honour of her Mum, passed on 31 years ago this month.

D did a marvellous Cat poem. There was also a God one not sure if in this set or next.

D (D's partner) had us up a mountain.

We went on a nostalgic trip to grandparents during summer as well.

I am not sure if that is all before the break.

After the break was a few new performers and a few of the first round also had another turn.

New girl with another brilliant poem about recovery, U had a couple of turns with soft lilting charms, J honoured Banjo Paterson's A Bush Christening (~) - and a T recited the words for Five Years by David Bowie (+)

I got to finish the night so I did a new one - Sounds a Bit Like a Country Song - and a relatively old one - Bottling Kisses (%)



Footnotes

¥ Yes, it got a little heavy

One thing about a room full of poets is odds on the majority of us got our social skills from the back of a cereal packet if we were lucky and had the 3.95 postage and handling.

That and working in finance. Or with computers.

Anyhow. That's an aside. (Or rather, a footnote)

% I went to see where I need to link so you can see Bottling Kisses but you can't because apparently I have never shared it before.

$ We might have bought the citrus house 

# as this weekend is opening in Vegas for the NRL - N at work is a bleeds maroon Broncos supporter

π I get it - although sometimes it takes nearly two decades

§ Nobody should ever apologise for working on your favourites. Seeing performers get into their work is part of the process of poetry for me

~ A favourite of Dad's to recite.

+ When I mentioned that to V he knew the song immediately and stayed while I looked it up for the link

Wednesday, February 25, 2026

Morass Mess

 Don't go out there tonight.


Don't go wandering into the cesspit that is

The multi-fonted opinions of others 

You cannot hear your own thoughts let alone voice them

Without being over typed and whited out

Control.

Alt.

Delete.


How easy to become pixilated with distress 

At the mess

Of the world 

Through this Lens.


We need to stop.

Step away.

It is so convenient,

Nestled there in our hands 

Offering an

Avenue to

The outside -


But it tricks 

It slithers our minds into 

Places that grasp the eye

And mesmerise.

The magic a sleight of content 

Designed to drown distrust no matter

What flavour discontent we drink.


It holds the door firmly shut

Every service 

Every transaction 

Every interaction in life

A tendril holding us in its embrace.


I remember records playing 

Books read 

Recipes torn from magazines 

Dinner guests 

Playgrounds and pizza parties and

People mingling with people 


I also remember watching others 

Interacting 

On the outside holding platters 

Or giving readings

Or being listener

Ears alert 

Eyes focused yet


Behind 

yet behind 

portrait painting poetry the scene from afar.


Perhaps it is not the phone mine own enemy

but a new frame for an old, old pose.


Stay within tonight.

Stay here and stay safe from the them and their hum 

Humour me

Put it down.


And escape.

Monday, February 23, 2026

A Glaswegian great-great-grandmother

I remember when first doing genealogy, I found the amazing life of my great-great-grandmother Janet .

At the age of 8 she sailed across the ocean on the Libertas with her family (my goodness I am crawling out of a massive rabbit hole the size of a Latin saying looking for a picture for this!)

As a young woman she married a mining man in a double wedding with her sister. What a canny Scot was my great-great-great-grandfather, two daughters off his hands for the price of one!

Over the next 15 years, the newlyweds 

  • Marry in Newcastle, NSW 
  • First boy born in Newcastle, NSW
  • Second boy born in Adelaide, SA 
  • Third boy born in Sydney NSW 
  • Third boy dies in Sydney NSW 
  • First girl (Janet) born in Sydney NSW 
  • Second girl born in Sydney NSW
  • Third girl born in Emmaville NSW 
  • Fourth boy born in Tent Hill NSW 
  • Move to Queensland 
I have looked at Emmaville and Tent Hill. They are mining towns in the same remote vicinity of North West NSW. I don't imagine that there was a lot of mod cons in the 1880s out there.



And finally I will leave you with this - from 1871 (not my relatives - that i know of, at least:

Image and text from Trove link - 1873

GILL.
A young medical friend asks our ( Glas-
gow Herald's) advice, or, we should
rather say, our sympathetic condolences
in connection with the subjoined letter,
which we do not think it a breach of
confidence to print verbatim et Hteratum,
changing the real names for others : —
tomintoul By
locbgilphead 25 februry 180073.
Dokter M- ? tere friend, — You
wus told me to rote you a word hoo i
wus felt mysel noo an to gie ye al the
news — my breth no that pad put am
stull fery wake an i canna get oot the
wether hear is fery pad nothin put rane
unless win an a grate dale o that same
too — dokter ye wus say i wus to not tak
a tram whatever on no accounts put
tugal mctavish that al lidge wi hears
wif fery skilly an she say a glep o whus
ky afor twl a klock an anitber at nicht
an maybe a Gamier o tody pefore gump
into my ped it wad pitmericht at wans,
tugal hersel wus fery nere deed a wliil
sins an he tak thre or fore gles in the
day forby porters an it wul' no pe long
afor he get petter an ther no man hear
noo thatl cary a bow o' meal wi hum —
there no be mitch news to told, ye e noo
tugals sister get mariet on last sbuestay
tull wan malcolm mcGregor a fery
decent lat an not pat ore atramneighter
hel kept a piblicans hous an twa o%
thre speeks in the perish o Craiguish —
Donald mcfale get drunk at Kilmichael
market fal an brok liims. legs , in two
place itll pe six minth afor he pit -his
feets tull the ground an may be so—
shop mcdougal broon meres fole gump
a dilk an fall and kill an shon hersel
sbist refus twanty pound the day afor— -
the minister o the establisht' chirch got
a wane last week and shes a poy an
doin fery wel an his wif too an is
prowdst man in hole perish — the fushin
fery pad hear the year an meal fery
dere an coles is two pound the ton
no moar at preasent but remains
Your servant
tull command
Duncan —
Dokter I forget tull say that itll pe
all small glessess thats drunk oot o hear
You sent a word son if you wus alloo
mee to tak a tram.



Sunday, February 22, 2026

Citrus, Sunday and such stories

 So, one of the list items for the new house is room for citrus.

One of the houses that I looked at yesterday HAD established citrus trees!

There are 2 wishlist items that have yet to be met, one achievable the other to be determined.

Image- fruit in a grapefruit tree, starting to colour against the green of the leaves and the blue of the sky. The thick brown branches are dancing highlights of this shot. Ha! You can't unsee it!
Which is absolutely terrible, Muriel.

Our citrus here is definitely on track. I did a wander around this morning, and visited the lovely Ruby in the middle - to the left - of the back garden.

Image is exactly as described above. Well mowed lawn (thanks V) so clockwise from top neighbours tree, lighter in colour our bamboo and the honey gem acacia, to top right spite lilli pilli (in our yard, involved a favour and two long gone neighbours), on the very edge an iron bark, Hills Hoist, old sandpit come compost pile, a wheelbarrow, buckets, bags of stuff and omg 😱 old icecream containers repurposed as compost tubs. Oops, I am embarassed! To the front a garden bed filled with pots, above it a straw covered bed, the asparagus bed, an orange tree with more than 2 - the hitherto annual record - an an old piece of gym equipment that has been a volleyball net, shade cloth drape and garden ornament for years. And then on the left, Ruby Grapefruit.
Edited to note the Creamy Frangipani - at least 45 years old if not older.

This year is the first year she is fruiting from the Western side. The buyer may have also bought himself a bumper crop, as it is still a way from ripe. I found out the hard way by trying to juice the one that broke into my hand when checking them this morning. One step past facelift!

Image - has this branch got a King Julian vibe or is it just me?

Still, spare a thought for my Dad - he got the truly too early pruned fruit and tried to marmalade it with some lemon juice that he had in the fridge.

Now, one of the amazing team of carers that we have is a girl - woman - I went to school with (she will always be Farrah Fawcett Majors of my primary days) has this formidable no-nonsense nurse mother who was a recipient of a jar. He got it back with a review. There were medicinal suggestions for it.

Dad told me that they were all going over the hill this morning.

"Who" I said thinking that he was talking about the cattle but it was mortality talking. 

I have also been in contact with my mother's sister of late and she told me that she wouldn't be around forever - then she told me of her theory that you inherit your genes from one parent OR the other. And her side was Aunt S, who lived to 100. So maybe less than 17 years.

Image - one gorgeous black cat s-t-r-e-t-ch-ing next to Kryton, our robot vacuum.

We also had book club - I had a sudden realisation Thursday that today was the last Sunday of the month and nothing was going to happen unless I made it and enough enthusiastic folk (just) gathered and hatched a plan.

I made soft spring rolls with miso-glazed tofu on some and avocado on some and they were divine. Everyone had eaten (?) so I have all lunches sorted for work this week.

Image - isn't it terrible, I can't even attribute this properly as it was some facebooky thing. Please come forward if you know where I got it from. Newspaper clipping : curdled milk, of a peculiar kind, made after a Bulgarian recipe and called "yaghurt", is now a Parisian fad and is believed to be a remedy against growing old. A correspondent who has tried it, says he would prefer to die young.

Our fridge seems to be getting fuller everyday. There seems to be a tsunami of jars coming forward crowding the leftovers forward.

Anyone else got that problem?